It’s 2015, and texting is an integral part of our lives – whether it’s pertaining to our regular ol’ friends or a girlfriend (or boyfriend alike).
現(xiàn)在是2015年，短信是我們生活中不可或缺的一部分——無論是發(fā)給工作上的朋友還是發(fā)給男/女朋友,。
Whether we fail to accept it or not, the things we say through text messages – in many cases – are equally as important as those said face-to-face.
不管你是不是不愿意接受,，但在很多情況下，我們通過短信傳達的信息和面對面說的一樣重要,。
For this reason, you need to be deliberate with the things you text her. After all, I’m sure you could relate to receiving a certain text that managed to brighten up your day after opening it up.
因此,，你發(fā)短信時要深思熟慮。畢竟我敢保證,，收到一條甜蜜的短信可以點亮你的一整天。
Here are the eight situational texts you should certainly be mindful of and how to go about them properly. 以下是8種場景下發(fā)送的短信,，你應(yīng)該注意如何恰當?shù)匕l(fā)送這些短信,。
1. The “good morning” text “早安”短信
You’re going to want to get a bit creative, here. Dive into your bag of tricks, as it’s the first thing she’s going to be waking up to in the morning. Make sure to stay away from generic sh*t like “good morning.”
這樣的短信你可能想要有點創(chuàng)意。嘗試一些小竅門吧,，因為這條短信是她早上一睜開眼睛第一個要看到的東西,。你一定要避免“早上好”這樣俗套的東西。
Do you know how many dudes have probably texted her “good morning”? Exactly. You’re going to want to separate yourself from the pack, so to speak – and how are we going to do that? Bam, we’re gonna throw in a pet name.
你知道有多少哥們兒可能給她發(fā)過“早上好”嗎,？一定有很多,。這么說吧，你想要和他們有點區(qū)別吧——那我們要怎么做呢,？噢,，我們要在短信里加上一個愛稱。
Personally, I’ve always been a fan of “good morning sunshine,” as it paints some pretty mental imagery. It’s warm, not overly provocative, and it’s also directly quoted from a Quasimoto song… so, yeah.
就我個人而言,，我一直很喜歡這樣的短信“早安,，我的陽光”，因為它描繪了很美的心理意象,，是那種溫暖的,、卻不太過分的感覺，這也是Quasimoto的一首歌里的歌詞…所以,，這個很好,。
2. The “I had a good time” text 短信：“和你在一起很開心”
If you genuinely had a good time with a girl – whether it was on a date or after just meeting her for the first time somewhere – it’s super crucial to be vocal about it. Don’t be shy, big guy. We’re going to have to use our words.
如果你真的和一個女孩在一起覺得很開心——無論是約會之后還是第一次在某個地方見到她之后——清楚地表達這種感覺都是超級重要的�,；镉�,，別羞于表達。我們要好好利用文字,。
Remember, if you don’t say anything, how will she know? Having said that, we all don’t have to be wordsmiths like Hank Moody in order to express ourselves.
記住,，如果你什么都不說，她怎么會知道呢？上面已經(jīng)說過了,，我們并不必像漢克•穆迪那樣舞文弄墨地去表達想法,。
Keep it short and sweet and straight to the point. If you had fun with her, just say, “Hey, I really had fun with you last night.”
簡短、甜蜜,、直接地去表達,。如果你和她在一起很開心，就說“嘿,，我昨晚和你在一起真的很開心”,。
It shouldn’t really matter how specifically you choose to articulate it – as long as you’re clear-cut about your feelings. The ability to vocalize your emotions will show confidence, and girls will eat that sh*t up.
你的表達有多么特別真的沒太大關(guān)系——只要你把你的感覺描述清楚了。能夠說出你的情感就顯示出你很自信,，而且女孩也吃這一套,。
3. The “I’m just thinking about you” text 短信：“我正在想你”
You’ll have to be wary of how liberal you are with this type of text. If you overuse it, you’ll risk making yourself sound a little bit creepy.
你要提防這類短信措辭的自由程度，如果使用過度,，你的短信有可能會讓人心生畏懼,。
I mean, think about it; If her feelings aren’t 100 percent matched, it might make her a little bit uncomfortable knowing you’re “thinking about her” with any great frequency.
我的意思是，要考慮考慮,；如果她對你不是100%有感覺,，那她知道你在很頻繁地“想她”就會使她感覺有點不舒服。
Then again, if she’s into you – the same way you’re into her – this type of text will pay off in spades. It’ll tell show her she’s truly making an impact on you day-to-day, and you’re sensitive enough to recognize and appreciate it.
然而,，如果她像你喜歡她一樣也喜歡你——這種短信肯定會很有效果,，能使她知道她對你的影響與日俱增，你也敏感地意識到了這種影響,、并且對此感到很喜歡,。(滬江英語)