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正文摘要:I can do it,! We all do it sometimes。 We undermine ourselves by using less-effective language,, verbal tics,, and other oral miscues。 That means there‘s always room for improvement to hel ... |
7,。 Apologetic (nervous) laughter 7,。歉疚地笑 Unapologetic laughter is great, and often contagious,。 Apologetic,, nervous laughter is at best undermining, and at worst, unnerving,。 毫無顧忌的笑是很棒的,,而且常常能感染他人。而帶有道歉意味的,,惶恐的笑容則最具有毀滅性了,,最壞的程度就是讓人緊張不安的感覺了。 8,。 “It’s our policy … ” 8,。“這是我們的規(guī)定” This is a filler phrase that suggests your hands are tied and you can’t help someone,, when they’re truly only tied by your own choices,。 這是一個表示你愛莫能助的托詞,而真正束縛你幫助他人的原因在于你自己的選擇,。 9,。 “In my opinion … ” 9�,!耙牢铱磥怼� If you’re going to assert something,, in most cases you come across as more professional if you simply assert it--not undermine your own point by saying it’s only your opinion。 (We know it’s your opinion,; convince us of it。) 如果你想表達某些事情,,那么你只需把它說出來就已經能顯示你的專業(yè)了,,而不是加上一句“這只是我的個人觀點”從而削弱了話語的影響力,。(因為我們都知道是你的觀點,那就說服我們吧,。) 10。 “Like … ” 10,�,!氨热纭� There’s a lot to like about like,, but there’s little to like about its use as an all-purpose filler。 有太多“比如……”的舉例了,,但并不是完全通用的,。 11,。 “Um … ” 11,�,!岸鳌� Only the smoothest, most-rehearsed talkers are able to overcome the fact that the intelligent human brain thinks much faster than we’re able to express those thoughts,; that’s part of why we all rely on verbal crutches like “um” and “uh,。” That said,, overusing these is highly distracting and undermines your credibility,。 只有表達最流暢,排練最多的演說者才能克服智慧頭腦的思考比說話快的問題,那就是我們會依賴一些口頭語氣詞“恩”或“額”的原因了,。但是,過度使用這些語氣詞將會分散聽眾的注意力以及削弱你的有效性,。 12。 Cursing 咒罵 Well-timed strategic profanity can be effective。 Lazy cursing is distracting in many cases,, and can be totally undermining depending on your audience,。 適時說些臟話也會挺奏效的,。但是過多的咒罵在大多數情況下,取決于你的聽眾就會大大降低它的有效性,。(滬江英語) |
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