新學(xué)期夸娃別再用“You are very clever”,，試試這15種說法！

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新的學(xué)期開始了,。當(dāng)孩子表現(xiàn)優(yōu)異的時(shí)候,，家長(zhǎng)一般都會(huì)表揚(yáng)孩子，鼓勵(lì)孩子,，希望孩子可以更加優(yōu)秀和聰明,。可是很多家長(zhǎng)只會(huì)一個(gè)勁的夸孩子“你真聰明”,、“你真棒”,，并沒有夸到點(diǎn)上。今天給大家分享的這15句話,，來自斯坦福大學(xué)教授Carol Dweck多年的研究總結(jié),，囊括了孩子日常行為的方方面面。

   


1.你很努力�,�,！
—— 表揚(yáng)努力
You tried really hard on that.

2.盡管很難，但你一直沒有放棄,。
—— 表揚(yáng)堅(jiān)毅
You never gave up, even when it was hard.

3.你做事情的態(tài)度非常不錯(cuò),。
——表揚(yáng)態(tài)度
You have such a positive attitude.

4.你在______上進(jìn)步了很多！
——表揚(yáng)細(xì)節(jié)
You have really improved on ______.

5.這個(gè)方法真有新意,！
——表揚(yáng)創(chuàng)意
What a creative solution to that problem!

6.你和小伙伴們合作得真棒,！
——表揚(yáng)合作精神
You work very well with your classmates.

7.這件事情你負(fù)責(zé)得很好！
——表揚(yáng)領(lǐng)導(dǎo)力
I love how you took ownership of that!

8.你一點(diǎn)都不怕困難,，太難得了,！
——表揚(yáng)勇氣
You are not afraid of a challenge! I like that!

9.你幫_____完成了她的任務(wù)，真不錯(cuò),！

    ——表揚(yáng)熱心
You did a great job of helping ___with her assignment.

10.你把自己的房間/書收拾整理得真好,。
——表揚(yáng)責(zé)任心和條理性
You have taken great care of your room/books.

11.我相信你,，因?yàn)開_____。
—— 表揚(yáng)信用
I know I can trust you because ______.

12.你今天參加活動(dòng)時(shí)表現(xiàn)得很好,！
——表揚(yáng)參與
You did a great job of participating today!

13.你很重視別人的意見,，這點(diǎn)做得非常好。
——表揚(yáng)開放虛心的態(tài)度
It is so nice that you value other people’s opinions.

14.真高興你做出這樣的選擇,。
——表揚(yáng)選擇
I am so proud that you made that choice.

15.你記得_____!想得真棒,！
——表揚(yáng)細(xì)心
You remembered to ____! Great thinking!